In this Secret, you explore your values, beliefs and boundaries.
First of all, when you Establish where you S.T.A.N.D.™ you gain clarity and confidence. Like returning faulty goods to a shop and knowing exactly what rights you have as a consumer. You have a base-line of self-assurance in your responses. And in your decision making. Because you are clear right from the outset.
Do you lack connection with your values, beliefs and boundaries? This will affect your self-esteem and sense of self-worth. Because you will second-guess yourself, and question your judgment and decisions. Or you will make assumptions based on flawed thinking, that will lead you into a downward spiral of mental and emotional turmoil.
Does that sound familiar?
Doing this is unfortunate at the best of times. But even worse when you finally realise that the whole basis for your initial assumption was false.
Your values, beliefs and boundaries will drive your life choices and decisions. And ultimately determine what you achieve in your life, and whether you personally consider yours to be a successful, fulfilling life. Or not.
Establish where you S.T.A.N.D.™ so you can put one foot in front of the other confidently. Then skillfully navigate the tight-rope of moral, emotional and psychological decisions of life.